respect...

today
i found out a thing...
found out that actually respect others are very important...
especially to the elders...
elders do not juz mean those old people..
it means people who are older than us...
eventough he or she older than us 1 month or one week or even one day...
he/she still our elders..
respect the elders...
it is not about the egoness..
it is about the human morality..
i experience today what is the feeling of those elders if i does not show respect towards them...
it is quite hard to take...
if plus the egoness,
it is more hard to take the feeling...
so y make others suffering???
i thinking back to myself..
i recuiting the bad karmas if i hurt others feeling..
making others uncomfortable and suffering...
y should i do such meaningless act??
what a nice reminder for today...

thanks to Buddha for teaching me that i need to take care of my mind, speeches and actions...
besides can purify my mind and life,
i also can make harmonies living with people around me...
i believe,
when we respect others, others will respect us..
even tough there are times we enjoying and joking with each other...
but these also have a certain limits...
we shall not exceed the limits..
know when to play and what to say is important...
may be it is already our attitude,
but we ownself need to beware of it and change it..
dun make others feel bad...
it is not good...

i got to continue my work..still have a hill more nid to be done..
juz thought of these things, and gt to vomit here b4 can continue...
if not, it revolving inside my brain and spoil my mood...haha
add oil..dear Senz...

Happy New Year ~.~ received a real new year gift..

Happy 2010!!!!!
mAY yOu alL have A greaT yeAR THIS yEAR!!!
HAVING great Health N wEAlth
n grEat Studies
Dun 4get alSO tO dEVELOPE oUR wISDOM aND cOMPASSIOn!!!

haha.. Where You all went for New Year CountDown Celebration yesterDay??
I went for new year 2010 countdown at Reverend Miao Zhan place...
pEople heard i Going to see sifu during Countdown 2010
they look like disbelieve and feel funny...
can't celebrate together with sifu and fellow friends at temple de meh??
tell you ho...
this time is the second time i celebrate new year countdown party in more meaningful way
last time was in Rev. Hui lu's Dhamma Sharing in Bukit Jalil
this time really give me a very different feeling of new year celebration...
went there talk talk with Rev Miao Zhan
while having a steamboat party...
haha...
so enjoying...

you have received your New Year Present??
u did not receive anything for this New Year le..
haha
then i can boasting a while...
coz i already received it yesterday..
it was from Rev. Miao Zhan...
u all might think that it is a material kind of things...
but if u think like that,
then you are wrong...haha
actually it is sifu's words that aimed and shoot directly to my heart...

i feel shocked...
sifu actually found out my problems which i having these recent years...
i was stunned at that time..
"how on the earth do sifu know it???"
the first question arise in my mind..
haha
but time is not quite enough...
i cant discuss it with sifu in details...
really want to go find sifu and discuss with her again...
but yesterday was really enough to open my eyes...
coz i never thought of it...
really indeed a special New Year Celebration...
although reach home very very late..~at about 4.30am
but i really really appreciate this New YeAR CELEBRAtion...not regreating AT ALL!!!

you might want to know what is my problem..
but i am sorry
coz i now would like to keep it as my private matter
if i able to solve this problem
i will definately share out with you guys...

so, i wish u all a happy New 2010 again..
may you all be happy and healthy
and hope you all can find the true joy from the teaching of Buddha...